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		<title>By: Anonymous</title>
		<link>http://bokane.org/2003/08/26/hot-asian-chicks/comment-page-1/#comment-375</link>
		<dc:creator>Anonymous</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 27 Mar 2006 10:14:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>youre such a pussy, you asian loving cocksucker</description>
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		<title>By: Alex</title>
		<link>http://bokane.org/2003/08/26/hot-asian-chicks/comment-page-1/#comment-374</link>
		<dc:creator>Alex</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 19 Dec 2005 21:08:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;ve been communicating with a Vietnamese girl for 8 months, and finally met her in person for 3 glorious weeks in her home country, where we traveled the length of the land from south to north and back again.  Now we are deeply in love and no smart-ass comments from type-A whites who think one should only date one&#039;s own kind will dislodge that love I feel for her.  Yes, it was odd &quot;standing out in the crowd&quot; walking down the streets of Saigon with her, because there is indeed a stereotype regading rich white men getting cute young asian chicks.  At first I was self-conscious about looking the same as them, but the thing is, I&#039;m nearly broke, and my gf isn&#039;t after my money, isn&#039;t after an easy ticket, she just loves me, plain and simple.  An aquaintance told me that I&#039;ve obviously &quot;got a thing for asian chicks&quot; but I resent the implication that I would so casually endgame with something so important as the human heart.  Sure you can try and push your heart towards certain goals, but dammit, it&#039;s as stubborn as a mule and does as it likes.  I never went looking for asian girls, my gf basically fell out of the sky by chance into my arms.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;ve been communicating with a Vietnamese girl for 8 months, and finally met her in person for 3 glorious weeks in her home country, where we traveled the length of the land from south to north and back again.  Now we are deeply in love and no smart-ass comments from type-A whites who think one should only date one&#8217;s own kind will dislodge that love I feel for her.  Yes, it was odd &#8220;standing out in the crowd&#8221; walking down the streets of Saigon with her, because there is indeed a stereotype regading rich white men getting cute young asian chicks.  At first I was self-conscious about looking the same as them, but the thing is, I&#8217;m nearly broke, and my gf isn&#8217;t after my money, isn&#8217;t after an easy ticket, she just loves me, plain and simple.  An aquaintance told me that I&#8217;ve obviously &#8220;got a thing for asian chicks&#8221; but I resent the implication that I would so casually endgame with something so important as the human heart.  Sure you can try and push your heart towards certain goals, but dammit, it&#8217;s as stubborn as a mule and does as it likes.  I never went looking for asian girls, my gf basically fell out of the sky by chance into my arms.</p>
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		<title>By: itstheinternet</title>
		<link>http://bokane.org/2003/08/26/hot-asian-chicks/comment-page-1/#comment-373</link>
		<dc:creator>itstheinternet</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 24 May 2005 02:19:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>That&#039;s really beautiful, personally I like a Japanese girl a lot, heck, it&#039;s, man I really like her a lot.
Anyway, it is really cool that you love each other, love is rare man, and my parents make fun of me liking an Asian girl.  Personally, people who stop others from loving each other because of race suck, it&#039;s love, you can&#039;t stop it, don&#039;t let anyone tell you different.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>That&#8217;s really beautiful, personally I like a Japanese girl a lot, heck, it&#8217;s, man I really like her a lot.<br />
Anyway, it is really cool that you love each other, love is rare man, and my parents make fun of me liking an Asian girl.  Personally, people who stop others from loving each other because of race suck, it&#8217;s love, you can&#8217;t stop it, don&#8217;t let anyone tell you different.</p>
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		<title>By: Xavier</title>
		<link>http://bokane.org/2003/08/26/hot-asian-chicks/comment-page-1/#comment-372</link>
		<dc:creator>Xavier</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 30 Oct 2004 11:38:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>This post is in reply to legend99&#039;s racist rant. To whomever you post was aimed at, I just have to say that I am annoyed that people like you still exist in US. Of course, there are thousands of white men that have asian fetish, and I don&#039;t deny it, but there is a difference between a fetish and a relationship that is based on love, not sololy physical attraction. I am 22 years old, and i have dated asian , latin, black, and white girls for the past 7 years or so. And you my friend, you are the nerd that is angry at something and tries to seem annoyed by the increasing number of asian women dating non-asian men. You can laugh all you want. Get over it.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This post is in reply to legend99&#8242;s racist rant. To whomever you post was aimed at, I just have to say that I am annoyed that people like you still exist in US. Of course, there are thousands of white men that have asian fetish, and I don&#8217;t deny it, but there is a difference between a fetish and a relationship that is based on love, not sololy physical attraction. I am 22 years old, and i have dated asian , latin, black, and white girls for the past 7 years or so. And you my friend, you are the nerd that is angry at something and tries to seem annoyed by the increasing number of asian women dating non-asian men. You can laugh all you want. Get over it.</p>
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		<title>By: Legend99</title>
		<link>http://bokane.org/2003/08/26/hot-asian-chicks/comment-page-1/#comment-371</link>
		<dc:creator>Legend99</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 29 Oct 2004 07:55:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Dude jsut admit it your secretly into asian girls and hide behind the facade of wanting to learn Chinese.  It&#039;s odd how you people always say you dont wan&#039;t to study an asian language just to hook up with asian girls but yet you always without fail manage to find true love with an asian woman...  Just admit it to yourselves what you people just love the fact that asian women have that beutiful slim build and exotic looks and that white women are just hideously misproportioned and completely fall apart looks wise by the time they&#039;re 30 with their minds and ego&#039;s following soon afterwards.  The sooner you just admit that little fact of life and stop hiding behind that &quot;i love the language&quot; crap the sooner asian guys will stop beating the shit out of you when you walk down the street with your hot asian girlfriend.  And yes i did the read the post and no i don&#039;t beleive your &quot;I didn&#039;t mean to hook up with an asian chick&quot; crap.  I mean your obviously a nerd who sucks so bad that you have to post your little story on the internet so people can know how &quot;cool&quot; you are.  And no im not a little kid im a 30 year old PC technology specialist and yes my wife and I are laughing at you.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Dude jsut admit it your secretly into asian girls and hide behind the facade of wanting to learn Chinese.  It&#8217;s odd how you people always say you dont wan&#8217;t to study an asian language just to hook up with asian girls but yet you always without fail manage to find true love with an asian woman&#8230;  Just admit it to yourselves what you people just love the fact that asian women have that beutiful slim build and exotic looks and that white women are just hideously misproportioned and completely fall apart looks wise by the time they&#8217;re 30 with their minds and ego&#8217;s following soon afterwards.  The sooner you just admit that little fact of life and stop hiding behind that &#8220;i love the language&#8221; crap the sooner asian guys will stop beating the shit out of you when you walk down the street with your hot asian girlfriend.  And yes i did the read the post and no i don&#8217;t beleive your &#8220;I didn&#8217;t mean to hook up with an asian chick&#8221; crap.  I mean your obviously a nerd who sucks so bad that you have to post your little story on the internet so people can know how &#8220;cool&#8221; you are.  And no im not a little kid im a 30 year old PC technology specialist and yes my wife and I are laughing at you.</p>
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		<title>By: Xavier</title>
		<link>http://bokane.org/2003/08/26/hot-asian-chicks/comment-page-1/#comment-370</link>
		<dc:creator>Xavier</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 10 Jul 2004 13:24:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>brendan, your story is a perfect example of open heart and mind. there still are a lot of people out there who, seeing an asian girl with a white guy just think, &quot;wonder what the **** is she doing with him...&quot; i used to feel like that back in the days, and when i dated asian girls myself, i thought the same way. i always had this feeling that i &quot;stood out&quot; in the crowd of my asian friends, and walking down the street with my girlfriend, i always felt that everyone&#039;s eyes were on me... like &quot;wonder how rich he is...&quot; or something like that. but that was a while ago. your love story does not focus around racial differences, which i think is awesome, the way it should be... and as other ppl have said above, love will find you, and you don&#039;t decide who you fall in love with, regardless the race, color, etc. i actually stopped referring to girls as &quot;asian,&quot; &quot;latina,&quot; i just don&#039;t like putting tags on everyone.  i believe that, and my ex&#039;es have liked me for who i am, [i think?] unfortunately, parents of most of the asian girls [ok, one last time] i&#039;ve dated disliked me, i don&#039;t know exactly why. i don&#039;t have a fetish for them, i&#039;m just attracted to them more than other races, don&#039;t know why... that&#039;s how it&#039;s been forever... however, being a white foreigner in usa, i&#039;ve had problems with others thinking the same way, like &quot;oh, you&#039;re taking a course in cantonese just to hook up with chinese chicks...&quot; actually the main reason was so i could better communicate with my then-girlfriend&#039;s parents, but... anyway, the racial boundary is still there, even in such place as the bay area, but i guess that&#039;s just something, even though not always present, but will never completely go away.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>brendan, your story is a perfect example of open heart and mind. there still are a lot of people out there who, seeing an asian girl with a white guy just think, &#8220;wonder what the **** is she doing with him&#8230;&#8221; i used to feel like that back in the days, and when i dated asian girls myself, i thought the same way. i always had this feeling that i &#8220;stood out&#8221; in the crowd of my asian friends, and walking down the street with my girlfriend, i always felt that everyone&#8217;s eyes were on me&#8230; like &#8220;wonder how rich he is&#8230;&#8221; or something like that. but that was a while ago. your love story does not focus around racial differences, which i think is awesome, the way it should be&#8230; and as other ppl have said above, love will find you, and you don&#8217;t decide who you fall in love with, regardless the race, color, etc. i actually stopped referring to girls as &#8220;asian,&#8221; &#8220;latina,&#8221; i just don&#8217;t like putting tags on everyone.  i believe that, and my ex&#8217;es have liked me for who i am, [i think?] unfortunately, parents of most of the asian girls [ok, one last time] i&#8217;ve dated disliked me, i don&#8217;t know exactly why. i don&#8217;t have a fetish for them, i&#8217;m just attracted to them more than other races, don&#8217;t know why&#8230; that&#8217;s how it&#8217;s been forever&#8230; however, being a white foreigner in usa, i&#8217;ve had problems with others thinking the same way, like &#8220;oh, you&#8217;re taking a course in cantonese just to hook up with chinese chicks&#8230;&#8221; actually the main reason was so i could better communicate with my then-girlfriend&#8217;s parents, but&#8230; anyway, the racial boundary is still there, even in such place as the bay area, but i guess that&#8217;s just something, even though not always present, but will never completely go away.</p>
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		<title>By: Amanda</title>
		<link>http://bokane.org/2003/08/26/hot-asian-chicks/comment-page-1/#comment-369</link>
		<dc:creator>Amanda</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 07 Jun 2004 18:48:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>God I&#039;m sorry but if you&#039;re one of those perverted asian fetishists that ONLY date Asian girls and seem to check out hornily ever Asian girl taht walks by you make me sick.  I wish Asian girls weren&#039;t so overly sexualized, and we were like everyone else.  Some pretty, some smart, some dumb yadda yadda.  Maybe it&#039;s because many of us are slim build and look &quot;exotic&quot;...but whatever!!!  there are plenty bunk, fugly ass asians out there.  look around people!!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>God I&#8217;m sorry but if you&#8217;re one of those perverted asian fetishists that ONLY date Asian girls and seem to check out hornily ever Asian girl taht walks by you make me sick.  I wish Asian girls weren&#8217;t so overly sexualized, and we were like everyone else.  Some pretty, some smart, some dumb yadda yadda.  Maybe it&#8217;s because many of us are slim build and look &#8220;exotic&#8221;&#8230;but whatever!!!  there are plenty bunk, fugly ass asians out there.  look around people!!</p>
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		<title>By: Brendan</title>
		<link>http://bokane.org/2003/08/26/hot-asian-chicks/comment-page-1/#comment-368</link>
		<dc:creator>Brendan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 07 Jun 2004 11:54:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi, Amanda - just out of curiosity, did you read the post at all?

Or was that directed at a general, amorphous &quot;you?&quot;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi, Amanda &#8211; just out of curiosity, did you read the post at all?</p>
<p>Or was that directed at a general, amorphous &#8220;you?&#8221;</p>
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		<title>By: Michael</title>
		<link>http://bokane.org/2003/08/26/hot-asian-chicks/comment-page-1/#comment-367</link>
		<dc:creator>Michael</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 02 May 2004 17:49:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I loved this essay...sweet piece of writing, so, keep it up, Brendan.  As a white guy who majored in Chinese and then got a job in China, I (surprize) ran into every single stereotype about white guys who study chinese and then move to china.  So, I lived in Beijing for two years, and dated an australian.
Keep it coming, Brendan, I&#039;m a sucker for a great love story.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I loved this essay&#8230;sweet piece of writing, so, keep it up, Brendan.  As a white guy who majored in Chinese and then got a job in China, I (surprize) ran into every single stereotype about white guys who study chinese and then move to china.  So, I lived in Beijing for two years, and dated an australian.<br />
Keep it coming, Brendan, I&#8217;m a sucker for a great love story.</p>
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		<title>By: andyb</title>
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		<dc:creator>andyb</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 07 Mar 2004 17:01:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>thanks for your post. for three years working as a teacher in China, I strugled with the image of seeing middle aged white men picking up young beautiful chinese girls in the university. To me, so often these relationships seems unequal and ultimately doomed because of the limitations on communication and the different presumptions that they took into the relationship.
As one of the comments suggested, maybe the attraction wouldn&#039;t exist if it wasn&#039;t for the ethnic and cultural differences which makes people of other cultures seem more alluring. After seeing how widespread this phenomina was I also determined that I didn&#039;t want to follow the trend, it all seemed too inevitable and predictable. I still hold that view today.
However I was really encouoraged to read your story and your attitude towards chinese girls.
 I feel that this is a very sensitive issue which it is difficult to discuss without becoming cynical or racist.
I hope that you can manage to have a meaningful relationship in chinese</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>thanks for your post. for three years working as a teacher in China, I strugled with the image of seeing middle aged white men picking up young beautiful chinese girls in the university. To me, so often these relationships seems unequal and ultimately doomed because of the limitations on communication and the different presumptions that they took into the relationship.<br />
As one of the comments suggested, maybe the attraction wouldn&#8217;t exist if it wasn&#8217;t for the ethnic and cultural differences which makes people of other cultures seem more alluring. After seeing how widespread this phenomina was I also determined that I didn&#8217;t want to follow the trend, it all seemed too inevitable and predictable. I still hold that view today.<br />
However I was really encouoraged to read your story and your attitude towards chinese girls.<br />
 I feel that this is a very sensitive issue which it is difficult to discuss without becoming cynical or racist.<br />
I hope that you can manage to have a meaningful relationship in chinese</p>
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